Carols and Mince Pies, Sunday 8 December

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This coming Sunday, we’re having a neighbourhood get-together with lots of nibbles and tasty things. We’ll even try and sing a few Christmas carols! Starts at 14:00 at a home in Colchester. Phone 01206 622712 for more details.

Advent: prime time to think again

We know it’s Advent because we’ve just had Black Friday and Cyber Monday. As if we didn’t already know, it signals the final crescendo of shopping frenzy before Christmas, which started back in September — or perhaps before.

It’s amusing to note that, on Friday, the notoriously irreligious French rebelled against the hyper-consumerist materialism of Amazon, which they say reflects values (ie American ones) alien to French culture. This is deeply ironic, since the USA piously sees itself as the most ‘Christian’ country in the West!

The real meaning of Advent is to look beyond the things which do not satisfy (which consumerism doesn’t — it can’t, otherwise we wouldn’t want to consume yet more of what has never yet satisfied). And look instead for some deep truth and wisdom.

Advent is not a starting gun for the race to Christmas, nor a sign of the last lap of shopping frenzy, it’s an invitation to stop, rest and consider what’s important in life, and our world. It points to the coming of Jesus and God’s plan to reveal to everyone the way to life.

It’s called abundant life — but not a life weighed down by loads of stuff. Paradoxically, it comes about by steadily letting go of all the things our ego thinks we must have to survive, defend ourselves, and get ahead. And the Good News is, we don’t do it alone. Advent points to the coming of God in flesh — Jesus, “Emmanuel”, God-with-us.

We can invite him to come alongside us, and guide us on a new adventure of life. Some have called this “falling upwards”, falling away from our precious ambitions and targets, and falling into the arms of a loving, gracious God who lifts us up to the loving humanity we were always meant to be.

You should try it. Just take a little time each day between now and Christmas to give space to a new imagination of being.

One place to start might be with Taketime, where you can find an introduction to simple mindful practices. You can start with five-minute tasters and move on to longer imaginative meditations if you like. While all meditations are based on short stories about Jesus or told by Jesus, you don’t need to be religious or have any Bible knowledge to enjoy them. Go to to find out more.

It’s free and no Amazon Prime account required.

Armchair Retreat

Seeking retreat in an anxious and frantic age is becoming popular — and understandably so! But while many of us yearn for respite from the pressures and distractions of modern life, it’s quite hard to know where to start.

On first Wednesdays of the month, we’re hosting a time of quiet centring when we can learn to allow room in our heads for silence and peace — Armchair Retreats. We have simple centring exercises to help this work, and all is done in the context of Jesus, ‘Emanuel’ — God with us.

This is suitable for all, whether you’re a Jesus follower or not, or whether you’re a mindful starter or not. If you just want some quiet space and an encouraging environment, why not give it a try?

First Wednesday of each month from 10:00 to 12:00, and includes time for good coffee and relaxed conversation. At a home in Colchester. Call 01206 622712 for more info.